If we love something or someone most of the time we like them because it meets our criteria of things to be loved...
We demand things to be like what we want things to be, in order to be loved by us...
We forgot that love is not act of selfishness in fact love is selfless, unselfish act...
If we try to change the nature of things or people that we 'love' than it is not LOVE...
We can encourage them to be the best version of their selves but if they can not change we will still love them because we love them even before we have the idea of what they can be...
But who am i to judge... Me myself often act like that...
I said i love something but in fact i have this silly ideas of what they suppose to be to meet my requirements of love...
We tend to change things change people rather than accepting things and feel satisfied for what we have...
Note to my future self...
Love unconditionally... It is hard but worth to try...
