People [or yourself] will tell u to move on when they [or you] think that u are too stuck in the past. Particularly when the past is hurting u.
Stuck in the past will hold u from looking at bright future.
Each of us has our own way to move on.
Some just let go and keep them as lesson. Some hate them to the bone and will not stop feel hurt and finally except the pain as a part of their life and let time heals the pain. Some other people take revenge as another way to move on.
U can share yours in the comment box later...
Here are my suggestion to moving on from a heartbreak...
Remove everything that reminds u of him/her.
Keeping memories even if its a good one will lead u to opening the heartbreaking chapter.
Removing them will make u easier to forget. Some 'brave' people will accuse u to run from problem. But don't worry. Yes, we are running but if we walk then the past will catch us and it will be harder to move on. It's okay to run. The winners are those who run faster than others right???So why should we feel ashamed to run???The winners do that. The whiners don't. It's our choice.
If u can't completely remove them, at least try to keep your distance. In case of person who we can not remove -unless u want to end up in jail, lol- keep your distance will be better. Sometimes moving on from an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend means don't hang out with his/ her friends for a while. Those people sometime in or not in purpose will remind u to those 'memories'.
We are running..undeniable..but we run until we are strong enough to face the past..We are helping time to do its healing process faster.
Talk to your best friend about your bad experience only at the beginning. But not talking about it after u decide to enter the removing process.
Last but not least...Try to avoid watching romance movies...Choose to watch Horror movies instead... lol..
This posting is meant to help those to want to move on as another alternatives...Another suggestion are welcome...
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